when my brother was in about 9th grade, I took him to the locker rooms after a Florida/Auburn basketball game.   Several players of both teams were standing around talking in the hallway.  Gator parents were there, including moms with homeade cookies for their Auburn friends.  My brother was so pissed off to find out they didn't hate each other.  I guess that traumatized him and he wound up not doing well enough in school so he ended up having to go to Bama.