As the informal policy here is not just to post links but add our own commentary I’m trying to come up wih words the sadness, frustration and anger I feel at how loathsome the Trump family separation policy is and the shame we bear for allowing this ro happen.

Here’s the opinion piece:

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.houstonchronicle.com/opinion/outlook/amp/Taking-immigrant-kids-from-parents-shows-contempt-12963039.php

We go to work each day as pediatricians to promote the health and well-being of children, and we form relationships with families from all walks of life. We see rich and poor, immigrant and native-born parents provide the steady love and care necessary to help their children heal from the simple fractures of childhood, endure the side effects of leukemia treatment or recover from surgeries. A new government policy of separating immigrant children from their parents shows contempt for this basic impulse of a parent to protect a child and fosters deep and lasting harm for children who may end up as our patients.

The Department of Homeland Security recently formalized a policy to remove children from their parents when families enter the United States unlawfully. It’s a practice that has been informally practiced for months, including among asylum seekers who have a lawful right to come to this country to request asylum from dangers that threaten their lives.

We recently visited a shelter for unaccompanied children run by the Office of Refugee Resettlement of the Department of Health and Human Services. Many of the children in that shelter entered the United States with their mothers or fathers but had been separated from them by immigration officials.

In a walled-in courtyard, we saw a 5-year-old girl chasing iridescent bubbles blown by two adults. Staff said she tried to run away any time she played outside, so she was limited to the courtyard. She would bite anyone who approached her, so she was kept away from other children and distracted with bubbles. Biting and seeking to run are signs of acute distress in a child of this age — a normal reaction to extreme fear.

This girl did not need bubbles and a walled courtyard but rather her mother or her father to calm her — someone who could hold her and make her world right again.

Children of “tender age” is what the shelter workers call the younger “unaccompanied” children in their care. These tender ones cannot understand why their mother or father was taken from them, and they don’t know when, or if, they will see them again. The bureaucracy of the federal immigration system makes it difficult for these children and parents to find each other, talk to each other on the phone or eventually reunify.

In a two-week period alone, 658 children were separated from their parents under the new “zero tolerance” policy. The Trump administration has described the practice as a way to deter other families from coming to the United States.

Children who experience prolonged separation from a parent display an array of responses manifesting as loss of appetite, gastrointestinal upset, tantrums, aggression and self-injurious and suicidal behaviors. When we see them in our practices, we can offer support and referrals to counseling services and pharmacotherapy, where indicated. But as physicians, we cannot provide the most effective remedy — family reunification.

The American Academy of Pediatrics has taken a strong stance against separating already traumatized children from their parents, due to the detrimental effects of cumulative stress upon a developing brain. Research shows overwhelmingly the deep and lasting harm caused by removing children from their parents. A parent has a critical role to mitigate stress for children. Prolonged exposure to highly stressful situations — known technically as toxic stress — can alter brain architecture and hormone-signaling pathways, with lasting effects on the child’s health. This kind of stress makes children susceptible to acute and chronic conditions such as extreme anxiety, depression, post-traumatic stress disorder, hypertension and heart disease.

The practice of separating immigrant children from their parents goes against everything we do as doctors to help families protect their children and promote their mental and physical development.

Many of our immigrant patients came to this country fleeing the dangers of their homeland, and they bring their children to protect them. That is their right and their obligation as parents — a decision we would admire in other Americans and which international and U.S. asylum laws allow for immigrants, too.

Removing children from their mother, and keeping them apart for days or weeks or months, devastates the most basic human relationship we know — that of child and parent. A policy that promotes this separation is a betrayal of our most precious values as Americans. Our country is better than this.

I'm not at all sure our country IS better than this. After all, we elected a man who ran a campaign that used xenophobia and racism as useful tools.

We have met the enemy, and he is us. This policy is evil and unspeakably cruel.